How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 17:56
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
What does it mean when we dream about demons, ghosts, monsters, etc.?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Ask yourself:
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Is visiting holy shrines (dargahs) or graves haraam in Islam?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Why would my husband cheat on me with an ugly fat woman?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Procrastinates a lot.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Does not procrastinate.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Making more friends is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What is the funniest joke you've been told that you still think about to this day?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Why is it easy to make money in the USA?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
That's it for today.
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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
What I need from you?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.